The joys of the dildo...

Dildos offer a completely different form of stimulation from vibrators. They allow the person being penetrated to be in complete control of the range, speed and type of motion. Some may prefer a deep, slow massage, while others prefer a fast, thrusting movement. You choose the length, width, texture, shape and even color of the dildo according to your personal tastes.

Pleasure is only one of its benefits...

Dildos can even contribute to better sexual health. Women who are approaching or have reached menopause can use dildos to help decrease the effects of menopause on the vaginal wall. Menopause can contribute to the thinning of the vaginal wall. Regular use of a dildo can help maintain vaginal tone and decrease the effects of menopause. Dildos can also help lessen the effects of vaginismus. This is a condition where the muscles in the vagina are very tense, which can make intercourse quite painful. By helping to maintain vaginal tone, dildos have been known to reduce the effects of vaginismus.

How do I decide which dildo is right for me?

Finding the dildo that is right for you can be a very frustrating process. If you walk into any sex boutiques the range in size and features of can be overwhelming. Generally you're looking for "the right tool for the job" - a dildo which is a perfect size for you, easy to clean, and reasonably priced.

Some men and women prefer realism, and the for many people the experience of a dildo is one of simulating a sexual experience with a man's penis. You'll find an assortment of dildos of varying authenticity, some more realistic than others. Try to find the dildo that best suits your budget and tastes.

Others prefer different shapes and styles, their preferences being more stimulation-oriented. You'll likely see the classic dolphin shape, assorted figurine shapes, as well as curved and spherical dildos designed for a new experience far removed from the phallocentric world of realistic dildos. Choosing the shape and style of a dildo is as personal a task as deciding what to do with it.